March 12, 2009
Same-sex couple's adoption debated
State court hears Fayette County case
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CHARLESTON, W.Va. - A Fayette County judge erred by assuming a 15-month-old girl would be better off being adopted by a married couple, the lawyer for the lesbian couple who has cared for the child for most of her life told the state Supreme Court justices Wednesday.

The infant, identified in court documents only by her initials B.G.C., was born to a drug-addicted mother in December 2007. On Christmas Eve 2007, the state Department of Health and Human Resources placed her with Kathryn Kutil and Cheryl Hess, a same-sex couple who had already been approved as foster parents.

Almost a year later, Circuit Judge Paul M. Blake Jr. ordered the child removed from Kutil and Hess' home so that she could be potentially be adopted by a more "traditional" family, one with a mother and a father.

Fayetteville attorney Anthony Ciliberti Jr., representing Kutil and Hess, said Wednesday that Blake failed to consider what was best for the child.

There are three categories of people who may legally adopt a child, he said: a single person; a married person with permission from his or her spouse; or a married couple.

"I don't believe there is any basis under West Virginia law for interpreting 'most family-like' as being a mother and a father," Ciliberti said.

Thomas Fast, the lawyer who was appointed to oversee the child's legal interests, said it was clear that having two legal parents is better than being forever limited to one, which is what would happen if the child was adopted by one of the women.

"If we're going to do what's in the best interest for the child, we should find [her] a legal mother and a legal father," Fast said.

Justice Robin Davis, who has twice led "Year of the Child" initiatives during her time as chief justice, interrupted to ask if anyone had considered the consequences of removing the infant from the only real home she had ever known.

"Nothing could be worse than to rip a child out of a family that has bonded [with her] for two years," Davis said.

Fast maintained that the trauma of being removed from a loving home early in life was outweighed by the benefit of having two adoptive parents over a lifetime.

"I don't have any real problem with the preference for two parents over one at the outset [of the placement process], but once the child has bonded [with a foster family], what about the child's rights?" asked Justice Margaret Workman.

"Our state statute [on adoption] makes no distinction between two parents and one parent," Davis said.

Fast replied that logically, a man and a woman would be the best choice to raise the child.

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Posted By: WV0588 (1:41pm 03-17-2009)
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These women have raised the child for over a year, so why deny them adoption of the child? Why is it that their relationship status has to reflect on how good of parents they will be? Children are raised by parents who aren't married, by single moms or dads and they live happy lives. These women want to proved a home, love and care for this child...and shouldn't that be the most important thing? And not let it be, "a married man and woman should be the ones to adopt because they are the typical 'wonderful all-around American' looking family? If the child is happy, healthy and loved while living with the only parents she has known , then why take her away?

Posted By: ClayCoBoy (8:59am 03-17-2009)
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Besides if a family either straight or gay can't be found to take care of the child, two options.... orphanage to earn their own way or prison to earn their own way.... or guess there is a third...euthinaisa

So if a couple of any makeup wants to take care of a child or children why should the child be less.

Beside aren't the MAJORITY of pedophiles usually consider themselves straight?

Posted By: jes (11:47pm 03-16-2009)
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Our identities go beyond who we sleep with. But until meaningful dialogue can be established, you really waste your wonderful discussions on those that claim to want to understand but really don't try. Really don't care to, either it seems. If they did, then coy flippant answers would not be the only responses to your questions or dialogue offers.

Posted By: wvChristian (10:24pm 03-16-2009)
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Curious, get over yourself. Who proclaimed you judge and jury? You are giving other Christians a bad name. You are sinning by judging others. WWJD. Not judge and put himself on a high horse like you do. Homesexuals are an easy target because their sin is easily visible, when many others like yourself sin on a daily basis and it is not as readily visible and they cannot seem to admit this fact. The whole point of the conflict was that the child's best interests were not being served by being ripped from the only parents she ever knew regardless of if it was a man and woman or two women. No one is beating the doors down to adopt a drug addicted baby. DHHR told the court that they did not have a back-up plan for this child and even if they did the damage from taking her from her family would be irreparable anyway.

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