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March 1, 2008
'It became an addiction'
Teens discuss what led to cutting, how they stopped

Editor's note: Because of the sensitive nature of this story, the names of the teens interviewed have been withheld.

Today is Self-Injury Awareness Day. Self-injury continues to be a growing problem across the globe, particularly among teenagers. What causes people to burn, cut or otherwise mutilate themselves? Several area students discussed why they started self-injuring and what made them stop.

"The whole reason I started cutting was for self-punishment," said one teen. "I felt worthless, and I would guilt myself all the time. I started getting into bad drugs like cocaine."

Photo illustration by ADAM HOWELL/Hurricane and AMY ROBINSON
He no longer cuts because he said he has realized "that people aren't worth it." A simple phone call led him to this realization.

"I was laying in bed and someone had called and made me really mad. I just realized, 'What's the point of listening to these people anymore and letting them get to me?'" he said.

For this teen, confiding in a friend helped him stop cutting. "I would usually call a friend and talk to them or go over to their house. I have a really close friend who knew about [what I was doing], and he said he'd do anything to help me. He let me come over whenever I needed to, and that was his way of helping me.

"People need to learn that there are ways out of it [cutting] and other ways to deal with problems," he said.

Another teen who used to cut said she began because "I was depressed and I didn't like life. My dad was abusive, and I had really low self-worth."

"Everything was happening at once," she continued. "My great grandma died, and my boyfriend broke up with me. I felt like cutting was the only way to get rid of the pain. I also started smoking weed and cigarettes, but the pain, no matter what, was still there.

"I finally quit because I realized it was pointless, and I wasn't getting anything out of it at all," she said. "Life is going to go on no matter what, and cutting isn't going to help it any."

Family played a big role in her recovery, she said, and friends even more so.

"My family kind of came back together, and my friends snapped me back into real life. They showed me that I don't really need to do that because it's not worth it. It all kind of happened pretty quickly."

She said she relied primarily on her friends to help her recover. She didn't seek any professional help because she felt that it wouldn't have been beneficial to her.

"You don't feel like you're going to get enough support from them because they're like every other doctor - they're seeing several other people at the same time; they're just doing their job," she explained.

With her friends, though, they all worked together to help each other overcome their problems. "We kind of felt like we needed to get help and to try to help other people who did it," she said, adding that her friends have been what has kept her strong and kept her from returning to self-injury.

"[Cutting] really isn't worth it," she stressed.

The next teen who spoke about her experience is a best friend of the previous teen. The two helped each other get through their self-injuring ways.

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